We seem to hear it alot lately. Marriage is on the downfall and couples more and more are not hooking up until later in life. Most men and women are attracted to people other than the one person they marry. It’s natural to look and desire. All the guys I know are hot for sexy girls … it’s a no brainer. I hear friends of mine when we go out say how cute that guy is or how sexy he is and chat about it over and over again. Which brings me to my point, if not for the old ways, the religious views and scare tactics of the past, wouldn’t we all be happier if we could be with others and sexually enjoy whom we desire as long as no harm is done? Could we have marriage or relationships where the norm would be to do such things? I think the past will always make us think twice and it’s too bad.
Would you enjoy seeing whom you pleased and your mate enjoying anyone she desired?
For myself, I’d love to see my wife take on more lovers. She is young and lovely and has a greater sexual appetite than myself. In the past she has experianced men whom brought her to passions that drove her nuts. She skipped to a different beat and got fully into her sexual self, yet still morals and what is right and wrong gave her guilt. The same guilt men have when wanting so badly to experiance other females. Is this gulit any good?
Could you both share such dealings and come to greater heights of excitement and would life be more fun? Some say jealousy would ruin everything and these crazy ideas would only harm humans. Plus more say marriage would fully be useless!
I think if it was the norm and long ago we had never experianced such only being allowed to be with one partner all of us would be much more happier.
Let’s take a closer look. For men loving a woman is easy. If she is someone that we develop feelings for we will probably always love her unless she does very bad acts in society. It’s natural to be protective of the beautiful opposite sex … it comes easy. Sexually men have the urge to do it with anyone they find attractive and when they do they don’t lose feelings for those that came before. Then again, wouldn’t a woman want such a guy to like whom they like, if they like them more than another? Do you prefer to have a guy stay with you ladies because he has to … because he can’t have another? It seems silly.
Now for the ladies feelings tend to run in another direction for many. Yet, I think society has caused this through the years. A woman is very capapble of enjoying multiple men and being very happy. Her multi orgasmic ways lend to great chance for amazing sexual experiances. However, it’s the I’m a slut mentallity that can stop such seekings. All of us are locked in a world of this is how it should be and what is normal to me is not normal.
To me and I want to know what you all think, normal is what feels right without hurt feelings and with great happiness. So I say if all of us could be with whom we want at anytime, true love would still come to the forefront of relationships and everyone would be more happier.
Could we still have good families? I think we still would, afterall that feels normal too, but with non restrictions I think these families could be much more happy.
Naysayers argue my points and lets see where it leads. Express how you feel about this quick posting I have put up. I’d like to hear what you have to say.